Caleb is doing pretty great. He's approaching us more and more every day for pets. He stays longer and wants to get scratched over more of his body. We had to start with barely touching an ear and one side of his head. Then we got to go from ear to ear. Then it was a little of his neck. But now he pretty much likes to get all over pets. And that is HUGE. He'll also sit much closer to us when we do this. Every day seems to be progress with him.
Lily is pretty much assimilated into the family. She's very attached to both of us. She loves to be snuggled by both the hubster and me. She just loves to be with us. She's still very frightful of visitors but we know in time she'll be fine.
It just takes time......................
Tuesday, January 30, 2007
Friday, January 19, 2007
The smiley one and the ankle biter
Caleb has added huge smiles to his progress. He has the happiest face I have ever seen on a puppy. He smiles so much after we come home. I am still trying to figure out a way to capture it on film. It really is just the cutest.
We are making huge progress with him. He comes up to us so much more now for attention. We still have issues with approaching him and he won't come for pets when called, but on his terms he is quite anxious for love. He gave me a huge treat last night when he sat down right next to me on the couch and nudged me for love.
He really is doing astoundingly well. We are so very proud of him.
Now, as for our little peanut. Lily is fabulous with the hubster and I. She is all about the love. She comes when we call her. She will sit in our laps and hang out. She's pretty much assimilated herself into our lives completely. The only thing we have to figure out how to deal with is her extreme hyperness. She bounces off the walls. We have been exercising her but she is still almost always wound up.
The other day a friend of mine came over. When she was walking out of the living room Lily charged out of the kennel and grabbed the back of her pants trying to bite her. As my friend put it, a mosquito would do more damage, but that's not the point. And as she and I further talked the damage could be far greater with a child. The second time she went at her my friend turned and looked at Lily and told her no. Lily backed off immediately.
My friend hadn't see the dogs since the week we brought them home. Her impression was that Caleb has made the most progress. She said he is fearful but curious. Where as Lily is just fearful and that her way of dealing with the stress is aggression. And she's right. We haven't had many people over since we got the dogs. But what we have seen is Caleb who avoids them but his tail is wagging and he's content. He'll go up to them for food but otherwise is just simply a little cautious around them. Lily on the other hand will sit in her kennel and growl at them the entire time they are at the house. And apparently, if given the opportunity will charge them. The hubster said she had done it before I was just off somewhere else so I didn't see it.
But, as in the case of my friend, as soon as she let Lily know her behavior was unacceptable Lily did back off. So she can learn. And she does listen.
It's just a matter of patience. And things will be just fine. They have come so far in so little time. We know what we need to work on and we are aware of the issues. We aren't in denial. We have more company coming on Wednesday. So it will be interesting to see how it goes. They know what to expect and the problems we currently have so they are prepared to help us along.
Anyway, I look forward every night to going home to my puppies. Our house is just so full of happiness. And I wouldn't change a thing.
We are making huge progress with him. He comes up to us so much more now for attention. We still have issues with approaching him and he won't come for pets when called, but on his terms he is quite anxious for love. He gave me a huge treat last night when he sat down right next to me on the couch and nudged me for love.
He really is doing astoundingly well. We are so very proud of him.
Now, as for our little peanut. Lily is fabulous with the hubster and I. She is all about the love. She comes when we call her. She will sit in our laps and hang out. She's pretty much assimilated herself into our lives completely. The only thing we have to figure out how to deal with is her extreme hyperness. She bounces off the walls. We have been exercising her but she is still almost always wound up.
The other day a friend of mine came over. When she was walking out of the living room Lily charged out of the kennel and grabbed the back of her pants trying to bite her. As my friend put it, a mosquito would do more damage, but that's not the point. And as she and I further talked the damage could be far greater with a child. The second time she went at her my friend turned and looked at Lily and told her no. Lily backed off immediately.
My friend hadn't see the dogs since the week we brought them home. Her impression was that Caleb has made the most progress. She said he is fearful but curious. Where as Lily is just fearful and that her way of dealing with the stress is aggression. And she's right. We haven't had many people over since we got the dogs. But what we have seen is Caleb who avoids them but his tail is wagging and he's content. He'll go up to them for food but otherwise is just simply a little cautious around them. Lily on the other hand will sit in her kennel and growl at them the entire time they are at the house. And apparently, if given the opportunity will charge them. The hubster said she had done it before I was just off somewhere else so I didn't see it.
But, as in the case of my friend, as soon as she let Lily know her behavior was unacceptable Lily did back off. So she can learn. And she does listen.
It's just a matter of patience. And things will be just fine. They have come so far in so little time. We know what we need to work on and we are aware of the issues. We aren't in denial. We have more company coming on Wednesday. So it will be interesting to see how it goes. They know what to expect and the problems we currently have so they are prepared to help us along.
Anyway, I look forward every night to going home to my puppies. Our house is just so full of happiness. And I wouldn't change a thing.
Sunday, January 07, 2007
Head scratchings and snuggle bugs
The exciting news is Caleb has been far more tolerant and anxious for head scratches. We have even had some full body petting and scratching. Usually he lets us pet him from quite a distance. We have to stretch our hand out and we can barely scratch his muzzle and ears. But this weekend he has been more anxious for love. And he's not only stayed close for scratching but he has put his whole body under my hand. He's done it with dad as well. We are so excited.
Lily fell asleep twice in my lap Sunday. She was snoring like a freight train. It does my heart good to know that she feels safe enough to go to sleep with me.
She's really becoming quite the little sweetheart. She's still a pistol and a half but along with her high energy and puppy like enthusiasm a sweet and affectionate dog is surfacing. I knew she had it in her. It was just a matter of a little time and love. She's been affectionate for a while now but there is a new level of sweetness to it.
I can't express how thrilled I am at their progress. We still have a long way to go with Caleb but we made some promising progress.
He was also surprisingly social when our friends were over Saturday night. He didn't just hide in his kennel. He was out, his tail was wagging. And he took food from both our guests.
Exciting and promising all around.
Patience and time, it just takes patience and time. As well as a whole lot of love.
Lily fell asleep twice in my lap Sunday. She was snoring like a freight train. It does my heart good to know that she feels safe enough to go to sleep with me.
She's really becoming quite the little sweetheart. She's still a pistol and a half but along with her high energy and puppy like enthusiasm a sweet and affectionate dog is surfacing. I knew she had it in her. It was just a matter of a little time and love. She's been affectionate for a while now but there is a new level of sweetness to it.
I can't express how thrilled I am at their progress. We still have a long way to go with Caleb but we made some promising progress.
He was also surprisingly social when our friends were over Saturday night. He didn't just hide in his kennel. He was out, his tail was wagging. And he took food from both our guests.
Exciting and promising all around.
Patience and time, it just takes patience and time. As well as a whole lot of love.
Tuesday, January 02, 2007
Goofy puppies
We took Caleb and Lily for a walk during the holidays and discovered that Caleb hates water so much he preferrs laying in a puddle over walking through it. How odd is that?
But both dogs, once we got them on dryer ground walked quite well with us. It takes a while to get Caleb going strong but after a while he gives in and walks with the family.
He is still fearful of us but we see little glimmers of progress. For instance when we herd them into the kitchen to wipe off their paws he wags his tail more and is more anxious to get cleaned off. He doesn't cower any where near as much as he used to.
He also seems to come close for pets more often now. This morning he stepped over Lily to get me to give him love. It doesn't last for long but every time he does it he is braver and stays a little bit longer.
He even got up on the couch with me yesterday. He curled up on the other end of course, but hey, it's progress.
Lily is pretty much fine. She's very attached to us or at least seems to be.
We still have to work on the potty training with her when it comes to rainy days. Dad even built her a covered potty shelter to try to help encourage her to go outside.
Thankfully she isn't phased by snow. She's more than willing to go potty out when it's snowing.
That is a blessing.
But both dogs, once we got them on dryer ground walked quite well with us. It takes a while to get Caleb going strong but after a while he gives in and walks with the family.
He is still fearful of us but we see little glimmers of progress. For instance when we herd them into the kitchen to wipe off their paws he wags his tail more and is more anxious to get cleaned off. He doesn't cower any where near as much as he used to.
He also seems to come close for pets more often now. This morning he stepped over Lily to get me to give him love. It doesn't last for long but every time he does it he is braver and stays a little bit longer.
He even got up on the couch with me yesterday. He curled up on the other end of course, but hey, it's progress.
Lily is pretty much fine. She's very attached to us or at least seems to be.
We still have to work on the potty training with her when it comes to rainy days. Dad even built her a covered potty shelter to try to help encourage her to go outside.
Thankfully she isn't phased by snow. She's more than willing to go potty out when it's snowing.
That is a blessing.
Wednesday, December 20, 2006
One word: PerfectThat's how Lily was the entire trip. She never had an accident in any ones house. She stuck by me when we were outside in the yard. She was an angel on the plane - both ways. And she was absolutely calm and carefree through both security checks.
She warmed up to my parents and even allowed them both to hold her. She took treats from dad. Carried his shoes around the house. And got up on his knees begging for egg.
At my Aunt and Uncles house she was a little timid but by the third day she was playing, taking food from them, and in general being a very good girl.
I couldn't believe how well she did on this trip. I was so proud of her. And when she came home she was happy as ever. She's been social and goofy.
How did Caleb do with Lily gone? Dad says he was quieter (in a good way). He didn't bark any where near as much. He only had one accident in the house. And he seemed to not be in any more distress with her gone. He went for a walk with the other dogs and though he had to be carried to the end of the block he eventually was willing to walk around the park a few times.
Unfortunately we didn't make any progress in his socialization like we had hoped. And he is still avoiding us. But he's exploring the house more every day. He comes upstairs now on a regular basis where before he would never venture up to the bedrooms. He takes his morning treat from dad very happily. And he plays ball with me when we wake up.
He will come around. We know he will. It will just take time.
Sunday, December 03, 2006
Slowly but surely
I can't say we are making huge progress with Caleb in terms of getting more social. He still avoids us like the plague. But he likes to be in the room with us. He follows us around and his tail is always wagging. I think he feels like part of the family, he just doesn't trust our touch. But we have all the time in the world to get there with him. He's excited to see us and anxious to play which is a good thing. And I know in time the trust will come.
Lily is really turning into my other shadow. She follows me everywhere. We may have some issues with separation anxiety with her. The hubster says that she barks a lot when I leave the house. And he can't seem to quiet her down. But as soon as I am home she stops. I am sure that as she and hubster get closer that it will get better. But I think right now it's all about mom. I'm very glad that she follows me closely and is practically under my feet all the time. I will worry a little bit less about her when we go to California. I know for sure that both my parents and my Aunt have completely enclosed fences. Of course before I let her out at either home I will do a complete inspection just to be sure, but my folks are always checking their fence to keep the little critters out of the garden plus they have a little tiny dog and they don't want anything to get into the yard that might eat him. My aunt just had a brand new fence put up last summer so I know her yard is safe.
On top of being my little shadow Lily is also just getting braver. So hopefully after the initial fear of being in a strange place she will settle in and feel at home. I have a feeling she will spend a lot of time in her little kennel, but having another dog around will probably help her to be brave. We'll see.
Other than that the pups are progressing as we hoped. Sometimes I get a little sad that we can't cuddle with Caleb yet but he'll get there. I know he will. I see it in his eyes. He wants so much to be brave. Actually, speaking of eyes I know we are making progress with him because we can make eye contact with him and he has no issues. Before we couldn't even look directly at him without him panicking and running to hide.
Lily is really turning into my other shadow. She follows me everywhere. We may have some issues with separation anxiety with her. The hubster says that she barks a lot when I leave the house. And he can't seem to quiet her down. But as soon as I am home she stops. I am sure that as she and hubster get closer that it will get better. But I think right now it's all about mom. I'm very glad that she follows me closely and is practically under my feet all the time. I will worry a little bit less about her when we go to California. I know for sure that both my parents and my Aunt have completely enclosed fences. Of course before I let her out at either home I will do a complete inspection just to be sure, but my folks are always checking their fence to keep the little critters out of the garden plus they have a little tiny dog and they don't want anything to get into the yard that might eat him. My aunt just had a brand new fence put up last summer so I know her yard is safe.
On top of being my little shadow Lily is also just getting braver. So hopefully after the initial fear of being in a strange place she will settle in and feel at home. I have a feeling she will spend a lot of time in her little kennel, but having another dog around will probably help her to be brave. We'll see.
Other than that the pups are progressing as we hoped. Sometimes I get a little sad that we can't cuddle with Caleb yet but he'll get there. I know he will. I see it in his eyes. He wants so much to be brave. Actually, speaking of eyes I know we are making progress with him because we can make eye contact with him and he has no issues. Before we couldn't even look directly at him without him panicking and running to hide.
Thursday, November 30, 2006
almost sleeping
I almost had Lily sleeping in my lap tonight. She cuddled with me for a long while. She curled up in my lap and snuggled. It was awesome.
Caleb is sleeping next to Sophie. He really likes her.
They are doing well.
Caleb is sleeping next to Sophie. He really likes her.
They are doing well.
Tuesday, November 28, 2006
The Prince and the Pea
Progress has come in many forms.
Caleb, though still not social does allow for things that previously would completely freak him out. He doesn't want to be near which causes quiet a problem when the ground is wet because when he comes in he has to get wiped off. He hates that and in anticipation of it tries to hide in the yard. But last night he let me pick him up and bring him in the house. And we have figured out that it is easier to block them all in the kitchen and wipe all the pups off than it is to bring them in one by one. If we bring them in one by one then Caleb KNOWS what is coming so he hides. So we have done the kitchen block off routine twice now and it seems to work a little better.
Caleb also is more willing to at least come out when strangers are over. And his tail wags more.
Lily follows me around a lot more. She's really becoming my little shadow. It especially makes me happy when we are outside and she follows me everywhere. It makes me a little more confident that if she got loose she wouldn't bolt.
I also took her to the vet for a health certificate so we could fly to Ca. She didn't want the vet to touch her so she came to me and hid her head in my arms. The vet said what she did was good because it shows she feels at least safer with me. And that I should take that as positive progress. He also suggested that we keep a diary of everything that goes on in the day so we can keep track of her accidents and if their is causality to them. Such as change in routine, a fight between Hubster and me, loud noises, excessive pestering from one of the other animals, etc......he pointed out that what doesn't seem like much to a human can be a lot more upsetting to an animal because they don't understand what it means. Such as watching a football game and screaming at the t.v. We take that for what it is but to a dog it's far more traumatic and they don't understand why everyone is yelling. And it scares them.
We continue to struggle with Lily and house breaking but we know we will make progress. And we remind ourselves that though it wasn't nearly as bad, Sophie took 6 months to stop having accidents. Bad weather and wet ground are our enemies in progress. And oh, goodie for us, winter is fast approaching. And then spring showers. It's going to be quite the uphill battle. Oh well. She's totally worth it. And there are always puppy diapers :-)
Overall we are having fun with the pups. It's a great joy in my day to play ball with them in the morning. And then again when we come home. It's good exercise for them and they love it.
Caleb, though still not social does allow for things that previously would completely freak him out. He doesn't want to be near which causes quiet a problem when the ground is wet because when he comes in he has to get wiped off. He hates that and in anticipation of it tries to hide in the yard. But last night he let me pick him up and bring him in the house. And we have figured out that it is easier to block them all in the kitchen and wipe all the pups off than it is to bring them in one by one. If we bring them in one by one then Caleb KNOWS what is coming so he hides. So we have done the kitchen block off routine twice now and it seems to work a little better.
Caleb also is more willing to at least come out when strangers are over. And his tail wags more.
Lily follows me around a lot more. She's really becoming my little shadow. It especially makes me happy when we are outside and she follows me everywhere. It makes me a little more confident that if she got loose she wouldn't bolt.
I also took her to the vet for a health certificate so we could fly to Ca. She didn't want the vet to touch her so she came to me and hid her head in my arms. The vet said what she did was good because it shows she feels at least safer with me. And that I should take that as positive progress. He also suggested that we keep a diary of everything that goes on in the day so we can keep track of her accidents and if their is causality to them. Such as change in routine, a fight between Hubster and me, loud noises, excessive pestering from one of the other animals, etc......he pointed out that what doesn't seem like much to a human can be a lot more upsetting to an animal because they don't understand what it means. Such as watching a football game and screaming at the t.v. We take that for what it is but to a dog it's far more traumatic and they don't understand why everyone is yelling. And it scares them.
We continue to struggle with Lily and house breaking but we know we will make progress. And we remind ourselves that though it wasn't nearly as bad, Sophie took 6 months to stop having accidents. Bad weather and wet ground are our enemies in progress. And oh, goodie for us, winter is fast approaching. And then spring showers. It's going to be quite the uphill battle. Oh well. She's totally worth it. And there are always puppy diapers :-)
Overall we are having fun with the pups. It's a great joy in my day to play ball with them in the morning. And then again when we come home. It's good exercise for them and they love it.
Tuesday, November 21, 2006
Silly puppies
Lily is such a crazy little puppy. She's full of energy. She is obsessed with collecting. And she loves to be naughty. She is ten pounds of terror. And we wouldn't change a thing. She's a joy. She's affectionate. She loves to give kisses. She steals bones and toys. I repeat, she is a terror.
Caleb is the quiet one. He watches. He gives you the puppy eyes and you melt. He loves to play ball. He loves to be a seal and get the ball on the tip of his nose and then push it up the couch. He loves to get pets - on his terms. He loves to get treats. We can see it in his face that he wants to be brave. He wants to trust. He observes the other dogs. He sees they have no fear. But he just can't quite take that leap of faith. We know some day he will. Until then we take what he is willing to give. He is the good child, the angel.
All is going well.
Caleb is the quiet one. He watches. He gives you the puppy eyes and you melt. He loves to play ball. He loves to be a seal and get the ball on the tip of his nose and then push it up the couch. He loves to get pets - on his terms. He loves to get treats. We can see it in his face that he wants to be brave. He wants to trust. He observes the other dogs. He sees they have no fear. But he just can't quite take that leap of faith. We know some day he will. Until then we take what he is willing to give. He is the good child, the angel.
All is going well.
Friday, November 17, 2006
Puppy Love
Caleb is doing quite well. He is coming around more to be petted. He also is shying away less and less from me when we play ball. And the big moment came this morning when I was not only able to get the balls from him so I could throw them but I was also able to give him a pet on the head. And he stayed right in the same spot, no flinching, no ducking, no jumping off the couch. I was ecstatic!
My little Lily is doing equally as well. She really comes at me for love and to play. She is fearless when it comes to getting attention. And we have such a wonderful time together. She is also progressing really well with Daddy. She is always front and center when he gets down on the floor to give out love. And last night she curled up next to him on the couch and she went to sleep.
Wednesday, November 15, 2006
Better and better
The pups are doing marvelous right now. Caleb is getting more comfortable with us. We had our morning session of playing ball and today when I went to gather up all his little stuffed toys for another round of toss he didn’t shy away from me. Normally when I gather balls he scoots far away from me if one of the balls is close by. But this morning he allowed me to pick them up and he didn’t move away. That’s HUGE.
Lily loves to be on the couch with me. She is huge into what we have coined “Schnuffeling” in which she wriggles around burying her little nose in the couch cushions, under our arm, under our leg. And while she is doing that her whole body contorts and wiggles. It’s too cute. If Sophie is up with me (which she usually is) then she schnuffels all over and around and under her too.
And as for getting pets I think Caleb comes to me a little bit more every day to get love. And Lily has reached the point where she begs me to pick her up and give her loves.
Lily loves to be on the couch with me. She is huge into what we have coined “Schnuffeling” in which she wriggles around burying her little nose in the couch cushions, under our arm, under our leg. And while she is doing that her whole body contorts and wiggles. It’s too cute. If Sophie is up with me (which she usually is) then she schnuffels all over and around and under her too.
And as for getting pets I think Caleb comes to me a little bit more every day to get love. And Lily has reached the point where she begs me to pick her up and give her loves.
Monday, November 13, 2006
Baby got back!
Caleb and I have a routine every morning. We play ball. He has three stuffed soccer balls that I toss around the room to him and he chases them. It's tons of fun.
But Monday morning he really didn't want to play. And then he really didn't want to go outside. And then he really didn't want to come in. And then just before we leave we send the pups out one last time. He hid. I had to take his kennel to the door. Something we haven't had to do in weeks. It broke my heart.
But when we got home he was back to my Caleb. And we played ball. And he wanted pets. And he went out and came back in without a problem.
I dont know what set him back a little in the morning but he was my happy little man by the time we got home.
Lily continues to be a crazy little happy peanut. She's doing really well. And as long as we are diligent in watching her she doesn't have too many accidents and she doesn't get into the cat box.
All in all, things are going well.
But Monday morning he really didn't want to play. And then he really didn't want to go outside. And then he really didn't want to come in. And then just before we leave we send the pups out one last time. He hid. I had to take his kennel to the door. Something we haven't had to do in weeks. It broke my heart.
But when we got home he was back to my Caleb. And we played ball. And he wanted pets. And he went out and came back in without a problem.
I dont know what set him back a little in the morning but he was my happy little man by the time we got home.
Lily continues to be a crazy little happy peanut. She's doing really well. And as long as we are diligent in watching her she doesn't have too many accidents and she doesn't get into the cat box.
All in all, things are going well.
Thursday, November 09, 2006
Catching up on progress
With daily progress being slow and tiny victories I think I often forget to post those little breakthroughs no matter how small they may be.
So: what's been happening:
First walk - October 29th:
Sunday was a nice day. We took the pups for a walk. Well, we took three pups for a walk and one pup for a carry. Caleb was terrified to be outside. He walked a little but kept wanting to walk toward the main busy road by us. I carried him all the way down the alley and then we put him down when we got to the sidewalk and lawns. He seemed to like that more. And he walked pretty well back to our house. But heÂ’s frightened by being outside as well as by us still so he spent a lot of time cowering. Lily did better. We put Caleb in the house and then continued our walk with the other dogs. Lily walked several blocks with us and around the park. She seemed pretty happy and she was very curious about everything she saw. She did very very well. Fortunately despite how traumatized Caleb appeared to be he bounced back pretty quick and was happy and playful when we got back home.
From Nov. 6th:
Lastly, Lily got her first bath and she looks super cute all white and puffy.She is also booked on a flight with me to San Diego to see my family next month.We'll see how that goes. I am assuming she will make enough progress over the next month to go with me to see family. And I think Caleb is becoming so attached to Sophie that he will do okay with Lily gone for a few days. My Aunt would really like to see Sophie too but she is too big to go as carry on and I would hate to put her in thebaggagee compartment. So, it will be Lily this trip. My Aunt and Uncle are SO excited that I am bringing her. My aunt had a sheltie when she was growing up so she just loves that I have sheltie mixes.
Oh, and the other big puppy progress, Caleb jumped up and sat down right next to me on the couch and let me pet him for most of a show we were watching. This was the longest session with him yet............
November 7th: Puppy Pounce:
This morning while sitting in my favorite chair drinking coffee and reading my book Lily charged across the living room and dove into my chest. I saw her coming so I was able to keep the coffee in the mug. But while moving the mug out of the way I got drenched by a big wet slobbery dog lick across my face. Good thing she's only 9 pounds.
And as of tonight, November 9th:
Yesterday morning I gave Sophie, Caleb, and Lily each a greenie. They happily munched them. (Max was upstairs still in bed with dad)
Every morning it has become part of our routine for Caleb and I to play ball. I gather all of his fluffy soccer balls and then toss them across the living room. He happily crashes into and through the dining room set to retrieve them. We have so much fun in the morning. It's our special time. Lily gather's "babies" and piles them on her chair. Sophie eats breakfast and Caleb and I play. (Max sleeps late with dad)
I got a couple of dollar toys from Target last night. Caleb loves them. They are little squeeky reindeer heads with rope knots on each side. I wasn't sure how much he would like them since they aren't ball shaped but they are always somewhere on the floor rather than in the toy box so that has to be a good sign. And hey, you get two for a dollar so how can you go wrong????
We still don't get to touch Caleb a whole lot. Petting is always on his terms but I think he's getting far more comfortable in our home. And his tail is always wagging.
Both Lily and Caleb have become very attached to Sophie. They really look up to her and like to be with her.
Max is doing fine also. Because of his herding urges he can't go outside with the pups if they are in a playing mood. He wants them to gather and behave. So while they are outside tearing up the yard he gets to be inside with us playing tug of war. His absolute favorite. We have found a good balance to keep all the animals happy and feeling loved.
Though we have a few lingering issues, such as Lily having "accidents", and Caleb howling at every thing that startles him. And then that causing Lily and Sophie to bark insanely, overall we have peace and harmony. That has been the best part of this whole adventure. The fact that everyone gets along. That the cats don't mind the new puppies. And the dogs we had have accepted their new brother and sister with wagging tails.
More to come..........
So: what's been happening:
First walk - October 29th:
Sunday was a nice day. We took the pups for a walk. Well, we took three pups for a walk and one pup for a carry. Caleb was terrified to be outside. He walked a little but kept wanting to walk toward the main busy road by us. I carried him all the way down the alley and then we put him down when we got to the sidewalk and lawns. He seemed to like that more. And he walked pretty well back to our house. But heÂ’s frightened by being outside as well as by us still so he spent a lot of time cowering. Lily did better. We put Caleb in the house and then continued our walk with the other dogs. Lily walked several blocks with us and around the park. She seemed pretty happy and she was very curious about everything she saw. She did very very well. Fortunately despite how traumatized Caleb appeared to be he bounced back pretty quick and was happy and playful when we got back home.
From Nov. 6th:
Lastly, Lily got her first bath and she looks super cute all white and puffy.She is also booked on a flight with me to San Diego to see my family next month.We'll see how that goes. I am assuming she will make enough progress over the next month to go with me to see family. And I think Caleb is becoming so attached to Sophie that he will do okay with Lily gone for a few days. My Aunt would really like to see Sophie too but she is too big to go as carry on and I would hate to put her in thebaggagee compartment. So, it will be Lily this trip. My Aunt and Uncle are SO excited that I am bringing her. My aunt had a sheltie when she was growing up so she just loves that I have sheltie mixes.
Oh, and the other big puppy progress, Caleb jumped up and sat down right next to me on the couch and let me pet him for most of a show we were watching. This was the longest session with him yet............
November 7th: Puppy Pounce:
This morning while sitting in my favorite chair drinking coffee and reading my book Lily charged across the living room and dove into my chest. I saw her coming so I was able to keep the coffee in the mug. But while moving the mug out of the way I got drenched by a big wet slobbery dog lick across my face. Good thing she's only 9 pounds.
And as of tonight, November 9th:
Yesterday morning I gave Sophie, Caleb, and Lily each a greenie. They happily munched them. (Max was upstairs still in bed with dad)
Every morning it has become part of our routine for Caleb and I to play ball. I gather all of his fluffy soccer balls and then toss them across the living room. He happily crashes into and through the dining room set to retrieve them. We have so much fun in the morning. It's our special time. Lily gather's "babies" and piles them on her chair. Sophie eats breakfast and Caleb and I play. (Max sleeps late with dad)
I got a couple of dollar toys from Target last night. Caleb loves them. They are little squeeky reindeer heads with rope knots on each side. I wasn't sure how much he would like them since they aren't ball shaped but they are always somewhere on the floor rather than in the toy box so that has to be a good sign. And hey, you get two for a dollar so how can you go wrong????
We still don't get to touch Caleb a whole lot. Petting is always on his terms but I think he's getting far more comfortable in our home. And his tail is always wagging.
Both Lily and Caleb have become very attached to Sophie. They really look up to her and like to be with her.
Max is doing fine also. Because of his herding urges he can't go outside with the pups if they are in a playing mood. He wants them to gather and behave. So while they are outside tearing up the yard he gets to be inside with us playing tug of war. His absolute favorite. We have found a good balance to keep all the animals happy and feeling loved.
Though we have a few lingering issues, such as Lily having "accidents", and Caleb howling at every thing that startles him. And then that causing Lily and Sophie to bark insanely, overall we have peace and harmony. That has been the best part of this whole adventure. The fact that everyone gets along. That the cats don't mind the new puppies. And the dogs we had have accepted their new brother and sister with wagging tails.
More to come..........
Friday, October 27, 2006
Puppy progress and puppy regression
While Caleb continues to get braver every day it seems that Lily took a slight backward turn. She's avoiding us and hiding in her kennel all of a sudden. It's not terrible but it's not her usual. And it's breaking my heart a little.
We can't figure out what would have scared her and made her regress. This just came out of the blue.
So, we think maybe she might have some problems with the stairs and or perhaps some arthritis. She hesitates to come up or down the stairs to our back door. And she hasnt' been able to jump up on her chair as of late. So maybe she doesn't feel very good.
The other thing that changed was that I washed her bed. So it wasn't down in it's usual spot for a while. That might have upset her. I put it back this morning when it was done drying and she seemed to be happy to have it back. But I can't tell if it was the only thing upsetting her.
I'll see how she is tonight when we get home. And over the weekend. If she continues to avoid the stairs and chair then we might bring her in to the vet. And daddy might need to build some risers for her so she can take smaller steps.
On the good side Sophie continues to bond with Caleb. They cuddle more and more. Last night I had them both on the couch with me and Caleb even let me pet him for a while. With Lily being more kennel bound he seems to follow her lead and hide a little more. But still, he's coming a long.
We can't figure out what would have scared her and made her regress. This just came out of the blue.
So, we think maybe she might have some problems with the stairs and or perhaps some arthritis. She hesitates to come up or down the stairs to our back door. And she hasnt' been able to jump up on her chair as of late. So maybe she doesn't feel very good.
The other thing that changed was that I washed her bed. So it wasn't down in it's usual spot for a while. That might have upset her. I put it back this morning when it was done drying and she seemed to be happy to have it back. But I can't tell if it was the only thing upsetting her.
I'll see how she is tonight when we get home. And over the weekend. If she continues to avoid the stairs and chair then we might bring her in to the vet. And daddy might need to build some risers for her so she can take smaller steps.
On the good side Sophie continues to bond with Caleb. They cuddle more and more. Last night I had them both on the couch with me and Caleb even let me pet him for a while. With Lily being more kennel bound he seems to follow her lead and hide a little more. But still, he's coming a long.
Tuesday, October 24, 2006
Caleb pounced at me
Yes, my little boy was pouncing really close to me because he wanted pets and playing.
Sophie and Lily were playing today. Chasing each other around the living room.
Lily really has no fear anymore toward me.
Every day, we get a little better.........
Sophie and Lily were playing today. Chasing each other around the living room.
Lily really has no fear anymore toward me.
Every day, we get a little better.........
Sunday, October 22, 2006
Recall and waggy tails
Great improvements in going outside and coming back in. The dogs don't seem to mind having to run past us anymore. We no longer need to either bring the kennel to the door or have the kennel waiting at the door to get them in or out. Now they come running when we call them to go outside and when we let them back in they anxiously run right inside. Even Caleb comes running to be back inside. It's such a good feeling to not have them cowering outside anymore. Too fearful to run by us.
We have also had some instances of Sophie and the pups cuddling together on the chair. They seem to be getting more and more comfortable with each other.
We have also had a few people over at the house and they are both more willing to at least come out of the kennel. Lily will even approach people to smell them. She won't really let a stranger pet her but at least she approaches them.
Lily has also become my little shadow. She follows me everywhere. Caleb often also will come to see what I am doing. She will also cuddle on the couch for a longer period of time now. And I can pick her up without her cringing.
We have yet to make such progress with Caleb but we know it will happen. We can't really make eye contact with him. He sees that as threatening. And we can't pick him up. But he does come for pets. And he does love to get treats from us. He seems to get a little bit braver every day.
We have also had some instances of Sophie and the pups cuddling together on the chair. They seem to be getting more and more comfortable with each other.
We have also had a few people over at the house and they are both more willing to at least come out of the kennel. Lily will even approach people to smell them. She won't really let a stranger pet her but at least she approaches them.
Lily has also become my little shadow. She follows me everywhere. Caleb often also will come to see what I am doing. She will also cuddle on the couch for a longer period of time now. And I can pick her up without her cringing.
We have yet to make such progress with Caleb but we know it will happen. We can't really make eye contact with him. He sees that as threatening. And we can't pick him up. But he does come for pets. And he does love to get treats from us. He seems to get a little bit braver every day.
Thursday, October 19, 2006
Divebomb Lily
Time is short but I wanted to check in. The pups are doing great. This morning Lily dive bombed into my lap to get love. Of course she almost upended the cup of coffee I had been holding but hey, my little girl is really coming out of her shell.
Here are some photos.
http://www.flickr.com/photos/newtsmuse/
Here are some photos.
http://www.flickr.com/photos/newtsmuse/
Wednesday, October 18, 2006
Progress continues
The big thing: Lily (Lila) is following me around a bit now. And she jumps up all on her own to sit with me on the couch. Or she will put her paws on my knee and jump just enough to let me know I should pick her up.
Caleb, our sweet little boy continues to make progress. We still can't really touch him beyond a little bit of petting but we'll get there.................We have noticed that he watches a lot and I think the more he sees the other dogs interact with us and trust us the braver he will get.
Aside from that we have started to scold them a little. Lily is a little to eager for treats and trys to steal them from the other animals. So we have been working on "Sit" and "wait" so she knows she can't just hog the attention and food. We have yet to get her to sit on command but a few treats and daily effort and she'll be listening better.
Over all I feel that they are progressing nicely. The house is definetly more hectic but that is partly due to the fact that we are all adapting and we are training. Last night was one of the first "peaceful" evenings. Both Caleb and Lily fell asleep on a chair together and they seemed content to just sleep. Normally they are up and down and exploring and since they still have accidents we follow them around. Which means we are all up and down instead of relaxing.
We have also slept through the night regularly now. They haven't gotten us up at 2 am for a few days.
In other words, the pups are making progress.
Caleb, our sweet little boy continues to make progress. We still can't really touch him beyond a little bit of petting but we'll get there.................We have noticed that he watches a lot and I think the more he sees the other dogs interact with us and trust us the braver he will get.
Aside from that we have started to scold them a little. Lily is a little to eager for treats and trys to steal them from the other animals. So we have been working on "Sit" and "wait" so she knows she can't just hog the attention and food. We have yet to get her to sit on command but a few treats and daily effort and she'll be listening better.
Over all I feel that they are progressing nicely. The house is definetly more hectic but that is partly due to the fact that we are all adapting and we are training. Last night was one of the first "peaceful" evenings. Both Caleb and Lily fell asleep on a chair together and they seemed content to just sleep. Normally they are up and down and exploring and since they still have accidents we follow them around. Which means we are all up and down instead of relaxing.
We have also slept through the night regularly now. They haven't gotten us up at 2 am for a few days.
In other words, the pups are making progress.
Monday, October 16, 2006
One week and 2 days later
The weekend was hectic because of the wedding but the pups still did quite well. I had Lila in my lap several times during the weekend. She willingly jumped up on the couch and laid down next to me. They continue to get better about going outside and coming back in without being afraid to go past us when we hold open the door. Their recall is even coming along quite well. The wind storms we had last week broke several of the stakes we had for the temporary fence so the dogs have been able to wander around the larger fenced area. They happily come running to the back door when we call them. Of course when they do come back to us we make a big deal about it and give them cookies. We want to make sure their confidence with us is pretty high before we brave taking them for a walk. I know the first time we do go out there into the big scary world I will have a whole bucket load of treats for them in order to encourage them to stick with us.
The hubster and I are really enjoying having them with us. The other dogs have adapted well and as long as everyone gets even amounts of love there is peace in the world.
We continue to let them out about every 1-2 hours. And only 1 accident this weekend that we know of. Yeah for the puppies!
The hubster wants to change Lila to Lily. We know her foster mom called her Lilliana at times so we think she will adapt to the change. Caleb will stay Caleb. We had name tags made for them to celebrate them being with us for a week. Lily gets a red heart and Caleb a blue bone.
Lily continues to collect shoes during the day. The hubster came walking in to the kitchen at one point with only one shoe on. He said, so, I found this one in Lily’s bed, do you know where it originated so I can find the other one? I laughed so hard at him. He always gets up after me so when he came down in the morning and asked how things have been going so far I say “Good, so far we have added a sneaker, a running shoe, a boot, a sandal, a sock, a washcloth, and a towel.” He then asks Lily all about her little “babies” that she collected. If you could only see what my living room floor looks like.
Caleb continues to be more timid but it’s been only a week. He really “wants” to be brave and cuddly but I think anxiety overcomes him. He can push his way frantically in the fur pile to get love. But other times he scampers into his kennel and hides. I just enjoy every time he puts his front paws up on my knee and asks for some love. He’ll get there, we know he will.
The hubster and I are really enjoying having them with us. The other dogs have adapted well and as long as everyone gets even amounts of love there is peace in the world.
We continue to let them out about every 1-2 hours. And only 1 accident this weekend that we know of. Yeah for the puppies!
The hubster wants to change Lila to Lily. We know her foster mom called her Lilliana at times so we think she will adapt to the change. Caleb will stay Caleb. We had name tags made for them to celebrate them being with us for a week. Lily gets a red heart and Caleb a blue bone.
Lily continues to collect shoes during the day. The hubster came walking in to the kitchen at one point with only one shoe on. He said, so, I found this one in Lily’s bed, do you know where it originated so I can find the other one? I laughed so hard at him. He always gets up after me so when he came down in the morning and asked how things have been going so far I say “Good, so far we have added a sneaker, a running shoe, a boot, a sandal, a sock, a washcloth, and a towel.” He then asks Lily all about her little “babies” that she collected. If you could only see what my living room floor looks like.
Caleb continues to be more timid but it’s been only a week. He really “wants” to be brave and cuddly but I think anxiety overcomes him. He can push his way frantically in the fur pile to get love. But other times he scampers into his kennel and hides. I just enjoy every time he puts his front paws up on my knee and asks for some love. He’ll get there, we know he will.
Thursday, October 12, 2006
Baby's getting brave
We are just shy of our one week anniversary with the pups. They are doing better than I expected. They are willing to be out of their kennel more. Lila is quite the little collector. She LOVES to take shoes she finds around the house and gather them on her bed. Tonight she is trying out each piece of furniture in the living room to see which one is the best to lay on.
Caleb continues to make progress, but far more slowly. He was the first to come out to say hello but he's the slower in terms of trusting us. He spends more time in his kennel. I feel that it is too early to try to keep them away from their safety place. I don't want to rush them.
We have continued to make progress in terms of getting them to go outside and then come back in. They sometimes get very fearful and either hide and won't go out, or when they are out get very scared and won't come back in. They don't go anywhere, they just sort of freeze up. We have made progress in that if Lila is outside and freezes up and doesn't want to come in she will let me approach her, pick her up, and bring her in. Before she would dart away from me.
We do have to continue with the trips outside on an almost hourly basis. But that is okay. I don't mind.
Last night was the first time they slept through the night. Either that or I was so exhausted from this first week with them that I didn't hear them get up at their usual 2 am. In fact this morning they got up when the alarm went off. I took them outside but they didn't go potty. Then about an hour later when Max got up they went outside again with him and this time we had success! Is it sad that I get so excited when my puppies go potty?
Anyway, they are a joy to have. I can't believe how happy it makes me just to be able to pet them. And to get little Lila kisses.
I look forward to the days ahead when maybe Caleb won't cringe before he gets petted. I dont think he was ever hit when he was at the puppy mill. I think human contact was nill and that is why he is so fearful. I know he had a great relationship with his foster mom C so I know he will get there.
More to come.................
Caleb continues to make progress, but far more slowly. He was the first to come out to say hello but he's the slower in terms of trusting us. He spends more time in his kennel. I feel that it is too early to try to keep them away from their safety place. I don't want to rush them.
We have continued to make progress in terms of getting them to go outside and then come back in. They sometimes get very fearful and either hide and won't go out, or when they are out get very scared and won't come back in. They don't go anywhere, they just sort of freeze up. We have made progress in that if Lila is outside and freezes up and doesn't want to come in she will let me approach her, pick her up, and bring her in. Before she would dart away from me.
We do have to continue with the trips outside on an almost hourly basis. But that is okay. I don't mind.
Last night was the first time they slept through the night. Either that or I was so exhausted from this first week with them that I didn't hear them get up at their usual 2 am. In fact this morning they got up when the alarm went off. I took them outside but they didn't go potty. Then about an hour later when Max got up they went outside again with him and this time we had success! Is it sad that I get so excited when my puppies go potty?
Anyway, they are a joy to have. I can't believe how happy it makes me just to be able to pet them. And to get little Lila kisses.
I look forward to the days ahead when maybe Caleb won't cringe before he gets petted. I dont think he was ever hit when he was at the puppy mill. I think human contact was nill and that is why he is so fearful. I know he had a great relationship with his foster mom C so I know he will get there.
More to come.................
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